The Father's I Do Not Understand

Nothing makes me angrier than a DEADBEAT DAD! (yes i know there are deadbeat moms but today I am focusing on the DEADBEAT DAD'S)

I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN will not acknowledge their own flesh and blood. 
I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN does not want to hug his babies.
I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN does not want to teach his children
I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can treat his childs mother like poop
I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can go one single day without seeing his babies smiles
I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can not Love his child
I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can not hold his child
I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN misses out on those looks, where his child will watch him so intently while he is fixing something around the house
I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can let another man take his place
I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can live with themselves while their child is wondering why they don't have a daddy 


I do not understand one teeny tiny bit how a MAN can SLEEP at night while he has a child who is going without the LOVE and SUPPORT of their daddy.
HOW CAN HE?

More importantly WHY? WHY would he Not want to experience the joy of this wonderful human being that he created. Why would he not want that Love?

I also don't understand WHY there are so many of these MEN?

I could go on and on and on..im sure I will add more for this is my 2nd short post on this topic. Up Next..why immature mothers don't let dad's see the babies out of spite!

Click here for my previous post on Deadbeat Dadisms

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The Lake~A great way to forget about the bills!!

We are campers. We love to go to the lake. If I had it my way we would have a house down there and go every single weekend. (maybe one day). I sometimes dream of living there but there are very few places to get a job, besides the local diner that employees probably 10 people total.

When I head to the lake I know that for 3-5 days I will have NO problems. It is a great way to forget everything for a couple of days. I absolutely take advantage of this. I don't worry about a single thing.

My favorite part of the lake is this:
                    I generally will always wake up before everyone else. I like to quietly sneak out of the tent and sit by the fire (that I usually have to cheat to light) and just listen to the morning sounds. The early birds, the early birds going out on their boats and making slow waves hit. There are sounds of other campers waking up for the morning and starting breakfasts   There is ALWAYS a family of ducks. Ducks are pretty amazing. The babies really count on their mothers.  It is very relaxing and my brain can actually relax. This is by far what I look forward to when going camping.

I highly recommend taking a camping trip with your family. It is a great way to bond. There are several things to do. We don't have a boat and it is sooo much to rent one. We do not lack things to do.
We stay at the campground beach a lot. There is a park there and a volleyball net. We go hiking and FISHING and we even have found a local waterfall that we now go enjoy. They have movie night on Saturdays. There is a big white wood board and they use old style projectors. You bring blankets and snacks and have a good ol time!

It is an all around cheap family trip also. The food is probably the most expensive but you can coupon your way there!! 

The time is here and I am ready to pack up and go..!


Here are a few pictures of us at the lake!

Heading to the beach for the day!

Having a coke in the camper (LOVE THE CAMPER! MY DAD TREATED ME AND MY SIS TO THIS! THANKS DAD!!!!)

Sand Castle Competition!

Dead Beat DadISM

UGH! ONE WORD...That sums up what word I WANT to express how I really feel about Dead Beat Dads.
(Yes I know their are Dead Beat Moms also, But today I will focus on these MEN. Well they are not REAL men but we will call them that for now.

I can't fathom how so many of these men can just drop their kids. Or get a woman pregnant to never speak to her again. Or tell a child they are coming and never show (this is the worst).

Since the day I became pregnant I was a mother. My husband was a father. It did not start when my child was born. It did not start on my child's first birthday. Us being parents started the very day I put urine on a stick and saw 2 lines.

You have to be a pretty big piece of poop to NOT want to see your child. Think of all the sweet moments that are missed. The cuddly, precious smiles. Yes I know there are poopy diapers and spit up along the way but those moments are easily forgotten when you hear a "Ma-Ma".

How can any man not stake claim on their child?
How can not support your child with Love unconditionally?
How can you do this to your child's mother?
 She was good enough for you to lay up with. I DON"T CARE anything about the relationship with the mother. If she has YOUR child you respect her and get along with her for your child. SUCK IT UP.  GET ALONG. SHOW LOVE and try, try, try to give your child a great life.
The statistics are true. Sadly, they are. Girls without fathers will seek that love from the WRONG MEN.
Boys without fathers will rebel and go down the wrong road. (I know that this doesn't always happen, but in most cases.)

When my kids tell me stories, I can usually automatically figure out that the child they are telling the story about doesn't have a father at home.

MEN. C'MON

MAN UP!

Be a father that your son can be proud of. You should see the way MY SON looks at HIS FATHER. His father teaches him daily. My 8 year old son will hold the door for any woman. Because his dad has taught him. He can build ramps for his hot wheels...because his dad taught him.

DON'T Be A DEAD BEAT.
You are a statistic if you are a Dead Beat.

MAN UP

The Croods in 3D Preview Review

I can't tell you the last time I got all giddy over a movie I thought would be strictly for little kids. Yes I am talking about the Croods! I remember laughing out loud (LOL) at the first preview I viewed. The family was standing there and Dad  Crood says "This is what I call a snapshot," next thing you know a big rock jumps up and smacks them all in the face leaving an imprint of all of them on the rock.
Yes I was laughing like an 8 year old kid!  They learn a whole new life awaits them and meet wonderful, animated creatures along the way!

There is a  wonderful tag a long, BELT,  that constantly sings DUH DUH DUH..in the most annoying but lovable voice ever.

The Croods seems like it is going to be a modern day Flintstones! If you are my age you definitely know what I am talking about. I can't wait to take my kids to see this movie! Yes that is right...I CAN'T WAIT.

Let me share a little with you...take a peek at the trailer!




Also you can check The Croods out on Facebook! And visit their WEBSITE for even more FUN!
This movie looks 2 cute!

The cast is wonderful including Ryan Reynolds, Nicholas Cage and Emma Stone just to name a few!

The Croods from Dreamworks Animation is in 3D! YEAH! SO go on over and check out all the fun on the website and come back after you see the movie to tell me what you think of it!